Hello. I’m afraid the West of Ireland stole my awareness of time—which is not such a good thing for updating blogs. But what a lovely thing to lose. I have found that Time’s absence elucidates perspective and purpose—and for this, I have the West of Ireland to thank.
Anyways. Hi.
Kathy and I had a delightful stay in Dromore West, County Sligo with Robin and Sarah—and Clovis.
Sarah is a painter, gardener and cook extraordinaire; Robin is an extremely talented engineer. Clovis keeps everyone on their toes, which is the most important task after all. She is a lover.
We shared two weeks together filled with wonderful meals, laughter, story-telling, laughter, excursions—and more laughter—at their Mill and around Sligo.
Mill?
Yes. For over a decade, they have renovated a Georgian-style Mill house from ruins—as in no roof, no floors, no electricity or plumbing—to this:
I’m not impressed either.
The property on which the Mill sits is absolutely beautiful. It is tucked in from the roadside and hidden from view by trees and shrubbery. There are views of the surrounding pastures, the Atlantic Ocean and the mountains nearby—all from the garden.
Sarah’s garden is a tangible manifestation of her artistic eye, her understanding of the interplay between colors and texture, expressed through the medium of plants. It is unfortunate that Kathy and I won’t be able to see the garden this summer when it is in full bloom, but, as Sarah reminded us, we left our mark.
Kathy and I spent hours in the garden, digging the beds, turning the soil, removing rocks, stones and, at times, boulders from the deeper, clay-like layers, weeding, transplanting, forming rows and sewing onion bulbs. And I loved it all.
I can attribute losing my sense of time mainly to working with my hands in the dirt while listening to the lovely soundtrack of the Mill. The rush of water flowing over stones in the river. The bleating sheep in the field across the way. The mooing cows in the pasture behind. The melodies of the flitting birds. And when we weren’t enraptured by our surroundings to the point of silent awe, Kathy and I shared fantastic childhood memories from the years before we knew eachother. Back and forth we went, discussing all sorts of things—from our various involvements in school plays and field trip destinations, to tales of summer camp experiences and horrors, to stories surrounding memorable classmates and teachers, to the items we collected. And the laughs that ensued? Immeasurable. It is such a beautiful thing that there is time to remember those things when working in a garden, shovel in hand, with a dear friend near by. I just love that.
We also had the opportunity to partake in the quintessential Irish task: stacking turf. Turf is cut from the bog, dried, in this case delivered via dump truck…
…and stacked. Jack, I thought of you and how much you would have loved this experience. Your help would have been greatly appreciated, too. It took the two of us four hours to stack the entire load—a record, according to Robin and Sarah. There are times when "Before" and "After" pictures can be most useful.
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And then there were the outings we took together. Maybe I should say the outing. Last Thursday we saw TT-3D: Closer to the Edge. It’s more fun just to chant TT-3D! TT-3D! over and over again. Robin would agree. It was a documentary about the motorcycle race, The TT, that is held on the Isle of Man off the coast of Scotland every year. Had I ever heard of this race before? No. But it’s not likely that I’ll forget it goes on during the last week in May anytime soon. Watch this and you’ll understand why.
We also shared a lovely Easter weekend together. Sarah and Clovis took Kathy and I to the beach on Saturday morning. We walked along the shore, ocean on one side
staring lambs from the pasture above on the other.
Then she took us on a lovely drive through the Ox Mountains before dropping us off at The Beach Bar for a couple of hours where we enjoyed a small bite and a Guinness. After she returned with Robin and Clovis, all of us—except Clovis, that is—sipped a glass of Guinness between nibbles of chips drizzled with vinegar and dipped in ketchup.
Then we took the most beautiful cliff side walk along Aughris Head. Clovis, nose down, tail up, lead the way down the grassy path. A path, dappled with clusters of spicy-sweet scented primrose, that paralleled the outline of the cliffs.
Up, down, around we went until we settled on a spot near the edge overlooking a cove below and the cliffs of Donegal in the distance.
And I do mean settled. Down, down, down we sank into thick, long, lush grass to watch and listen to the undulating waves.
They’re transfixing, waves. Rise, crest, tumble, rush, slow, pull, fade. Over and over and over again. A series of motions that is timeless. And fascinating. And soothing.
And wonderful.
Those waves have a way of transporting everyone into their own respective, silent recesses. A way of settling and easing anxieties. A way of reminding one that there is so much—time.
I needed that reminder very much and was grateful to find it in the company of lovely people and scenery.
Easter Sunday was another special day. When Kathy and I walked into the kitchen, we had a wonderful surprise awaiting us: giant, milk chocolate Easter eggs—filled with chocolates. Of course the Easter Bunny is able to hop across the pond. I don’t know why I ever doubted him. Kathy and I celebrated the day with a long run along the Coast Road. We were hugged by the ocean on one side and rolling green pastures on the other and covered overhead with a blue sky full of fluffy white clouds. An absolutely perfect day that rolled into a perfect evening.
We had the pleasure of enjoying Easter dinner with four of Robin and Sarah’s friends, Ann, Kieran, Rachel and Jason. The menu? Fantastic. We began with a pot full of boiled crab claws. Bits of shell and crab meat went flying into neighbors’ wine glasses—a small expense to pay—with each whack and crack of the hammer, something I’ll be finding excuses to use at the dinner table more often. We continued on with leg of lamb, deboned expertly before it went on the barbeque by Robin’s engineer-with-a-knife-like skills, potatoes, sautéed leeks and Sarah’s lemon pudding cake, served with heaps of fluffy, vanilla whipped cream.
Lemon pudding cake. That is worth mentioning twice. I have a thing about lemon, don’t I, Mom? I only like it in a few places: drinks, salad dressings and sweets. On fish? No, thank you. In pancakes, bar cookies and icing? Yes, please. In pudding cake? Now that I’ve tasted it—especially in pudding cake.
Sarah shared the recipe with me and it would be complete sacrilege if I didn’t share it as well. After all, is there anything worse than a secret recipe? Not as far as I am concerned. Enjoy.
Sarah’s Lemon Pudding Cake
1/4 cup unsalted butter, melted
1 cup sugar, divided
3 large eggs, separated, at room temperature
1/4 cup all-purpose flour
1/4 tsp. plus 1/8 tsp. salt
1 and 1/4 cup milk, at room temperature
1/3 cup lemon juice, at room temperature
Grated zest of one large lemon
Pre-heat oven to 350*
Butter 8 6-oz. ceramic ramekins OR as Sarah does, one large, deep glass baking dish (approximately 10” x 7” x 3”)
In a large bowl, whisk together the butter, 2/3 cup sugar and egg yolks until smooth and fluffy, about one minute
Add flour and salt to the bowl, slowly drizzling in the milk while whisking constantly until the mixture is smooth
Whisk in the lemon juice—the mixture will be thin
Beat the egg whites in a clean bowl with a large balloon whisk until soft and peaks form
Gradually, a few teaspoons at a time, beat in the remaining 1/3 cup sugar
Continue beating until the sugar is completely dissolved and no grittiness remains and medium-stiff peaks form when you pull the whisk away
Scrape the egg whites into the bowl with the egg yolk mixture; sprinkle the zest on top
With the whisk, quickly but gently fold the egg whites into the batter
Divide the mixture evenly among the ramekins OR pour the entire mixture into the glass baking dish; since the cakes do not really rise, you can fill them to within 1/8” of the top
Place the ramekins/glass baking dish in a roasting pan and pour warm water into the pan reaching halfway up the side(s)
Bake for 25 minutes, whether using ramekins or baking dish, until top(s) is/are golden and spring back when touched
Remove the custard(s) from the hot water bath and place on a wire rack to cool
Cool for 30 minutes to set completely as pudding cakes will curdle and separate if stirred while hot
Serve just warm, at room temperature or chilled with mounds of whipped cream flavored with vanilla extract or vanilla bean paste